Why can people’s inherent thinking and habits formed in decades and centuries be changed by your words?

Pei Wende never overestimates his charm, and he is not so arrogant that he feels that he has the domineering power to say "the king of China".
Chapter III Shan Gui Site
"Do you really want to hear my opinion?"
After a short hesitation, Pei Wende asked the bear with a face to face with some uncertainty.
"Sir, don’t worry about it. Just say what you have to say."
As if he didn’t see Pei Wende’s hesitation, the giant bear immediately assured him.
"Mr. Wang has saved my life and successfully helped Bi Xing and Ping Ming to separate their brothers and sisters, which can be said to be our family benefactor."
"I am not human, but I also have the heart to repay kindness."
"Sir, if you have any good suggestions for my two children, I will certainly accept them with an open mind!"
To hear this PeiWenDe suddenly could not help but laugh.
"Bear, where did you learn this?"
"Although it sounds sincere, it is obviously not something that a lout can say."
Pei Wende said it was a fact. Unlike his wife, the water demon, the giant bear with a face is a real reckless and foolish person.
No matter how much it cares about its female education, it is impossible for it to come forward with this well-founded, well-organized and clear logical statement.
"Haha, I can’t hide it from Mr.!"
"What I said was that I sneaked into the town to listen to those who said it."
Some embarrassed scratched his cheek, and the face of the giant bear revealed itself again
Pei Wende bet that if the water demon knew that the giant bear with a face secretly ran to the Goulan without telling her, it would be another noise.
"However, although words are stolen, I just spoke from my heart."
The expression is rare and serious. The giant bear with a human face stares at the opposite Peiwende and earnestly tells the story.
"I’m a lout myself, and I know that."
"Madam, I know a little about it, but I always think that Bi Xing and Ping Ming are demons. It is not a good thing for them to get too close to and learn from human beings."
"However, I was stupid and couldn’t think of two beautiful ways, which led to frequent quarrels with my wife."
Speaking of which, Xiong Yin, a giant with a face, paused a little.
"Sir, if you have any different opinions, I really want to hear them."
I blinked Pei Wende finally didn’t refuse this time, but pointed to the nearby pavilions and stone benches and said
"if you really want to know my opinion, let’s go and sit there and talk!"
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Synchronism
Near a remote village in Waixiangzhou, Xian Mountain.
"Niang? How long are we going to run away from home this time? "
Enchanting and calm, the water demon walked in front and followed her closely, while Xiao Pang asked
Seeing that Xiao pang was pressing on and asking questions, he didn’t forget to put a bag in his mouth.
Xiao pang is not afraid of suffering, or the "demon king" like him has no concept of suffering and fatigue.
Xiao pang is really afraid of being hungry, even if he can’t eat all kinds of delicious food any more.
So now he desperately hopes that his mother will end this run away from home quickly, otherwise it will be him every time he is hungry.
"How long did you run away from home?"
"Of course, we have to wait until dad realizes his mistake and apologizes to us in person."
Behind Xiaopang Bixing, who was floating quietly, dressed in a long blue-gray dress and with a face as cold as a water demon, Ping replied lightly.
"If you are really hungry and can’t stand it, you can go back first."
There used to be a physical twin, and no one knows Bi Xing’s temper better than Ping Ming.
Although this little guy has become very greedy since he separated, he seems to be heartless forever.
In fact, Bi Xing belongs to the type of being wiser than a fool, and is not inferior to Ping Ming in terms of interpersonal and perspective.
Before that, most of the daily quarrels between the giant bear and the water demon were mediated by Bi Xing.
After all, Ping’s personality is definitely not a little cotton-padded jacket that parents care about.
Only Bi Xing, a heartless guy, can mediate parents’ daily quarrels and contradictions again and again.
But even so, Bi Xingshi has his own ideas and opinions.
Otherwise, this time, I won’t resolutely follow the water demon and Ping Ming to choose to run away from home.
"If you don’t persuade your parents to quarrel, forget it. Why do you keep arching the fire?"
Didn’t good the spirit turned supercilious look BiXing is seen, if there is no ping Ming aside arch fire his old niang this time I guess I won’t choose to run away from home.
"Don’t you think it’s interesting?"
Gherardini raised her mouth, and Ping Ming continued to float forward.
Yu Bixing complained?
Ping Ming is a habitual selective listener who doesn’t put the other person’s complaints at ease.
"Or don’t you want to see how human beings learn and live?"
When this was said, I opened my mouth and finally honestly followed the water demon in front.
Bi Xingcheng did not stop chewing during this process.
Eat steamed bread after eating the bag. His pocket is like a gluttonous food bag, from which he can continuously take out all kinds of food and drink.
“……”
Watching the dialogue between Bi Xing and Ping Ming, the water demon went straight ahead, but never said anything.
Because as Ping Ming said, this problem is not just about children and their daughters’ study.
This is a question of what kind of lifestyle a woman should choose after leaving her parents.
The water demon hopes that his children can see a wider world instead of limiting their lives to such a small place as Xian Mountain.
On the contrary, the giant bear with a human face thinks that his children are born to be "the Lord of Xian Mountain" and "the head of the group of demons"
Spend energy and time to learn things that you may never get in a generation.
Knowing that it is the most important thing to be a qualified demon king in Xian Mountain if you control the demons correctly.
"Mom, let’s not talk about how long we are going to run away from home this time. Where are we going?"
After another silence, Bi Xing felt that he was finally half full, so he casually asked another question that he was more concerned about.
"We’re going to Shan Gui territory."
This time the water demon didn’t continue to remain silent.
"That Shan Gui is the first time my parents came to Xian Mountain to make friends. I haven’t seen each other for decades."
"I just went to her for a while this time until your father knew the importance of the problem."
Chapter IV The Demon King of Xian Mountain
Shuwai Mountain Villa Courtyard Pavilion
"I want to ask you a question before I formally answer your question."
Looking at the giant bear Pei Wende sitting on a stone bench, he first came up with a problem that scratched his head.
"Do you think peace or order is important?"